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Mission Accomplished

Hey Everyone! I have completed CHBOLC (Chaplain Basic Officer Leadership Course) for the US Army. It was a long three months but it was great training that will last a lifetime. I left in January and Returned the first week of April, from South Carolina to Louisville Kentucky. I miss the camaraderie with some great guys that I have met and some friendships I hope to keep. I now have to finish seminary and continue to serve as pastor of Covington Baptist Church. I consider it a great honor to serve my God and my country. Continue to check back, I will be back on a posting schedule.

Called to be… ME

Hey everyone! I have answered my own questions for all to see. This was a questionnaire that I have sent out to many friends and leaders for the betterment of others. Feel free to ask questions or leave a comment.

Ministry Position or Expertise: My Current position is Family Support Specialist with the state of Kentucky. Before this position I served churches in the areas of Youth Ministry, Associate Pastor.
Where are you located: Louisville, Kentucky
How long have you been in/doing current ministry? Part Time 8 years = Full Time = 2 years – Total 10 years

Coaching:

(In your opinion)
1. What are some things you wish you knew before entering into your specific ministry/expertise?
For me, I wish I had known how to handle people who didn’t like me. This may sound odd, but there are people who have a problem liking anyone “new”. I think the most helpful aspect to this question is that those starting out in ministry, or any job, would be to learn how to deal with conflict, people management and stress relief.

2. What are some specific ways to build knowledge/experience in your area of ministry/expertise?
Serve under a pastor, youth pastor or minister. Find out what God is calling you to be and then surround yourself with like-minded leaders who will invest in you. Next, I would say read everything you can about your area of interest. Lastly, seek the Holy Spirit and His leading.

3. What are some common challenges associated with your area of ministry/expertise?
Getting everyone “on-board”. Its easy to write out a budget on a ChickfilA napkin but it is another thing to convince people to follow your lead. Best advice would be to give people ownership and allow them to get on the boat or jump ship.

4. What was your biggest learning experience concerning your ministry/expertise?
Not every Youth Ministry/Church is the same. This sounds like a no-brainer, but it’s true! Do not expect to go in to a new ministry and expect the same results from the same practices.

5. What advice would you give someone interested in pursuing ministry/expertise?
Pray. Learn. GO. Prayer is the first place to realize one’s calling and vision. Learning is key when pursuing a leadership role. Finally, GO, meaning go for it! Jump in and do it, don’t wait for the right moment to start living out the calling God has placed on your life.

6. What tools/websites do you use in your ministry/expertise?
Several! SimplyYouthMinistry.com, creativemyk.com, theresurgence.com, churchcreatives.com, esvstudybible.org, macarthur commentaries, 9marks.org and many many more!

7. What are some key failures that you would pass along to someone interested in ministry/expertise?
When faced with opposition you must deal with it as soon as it comes. Do not be apathetic when opposed. Understand the opposition’s concerns, pray to see if you need to change, take action.

8. What traits must one possess in order to excel in your area ministry/expertise?
Humility, Integrity and Passion.

9. What is the vision for your ministry/expertise?
Love God Love People: Great Commandment, Great Commission living.

10. Do you see any current trends in your area of ministry? Will the trend(s) have a positive/negative impact on future ministry/expertise?
Family ministy is not a new trend, but it is a growing movement within the church today. From the Pastor down to the grounds crew, my advice would be to learn all you can about the families you serve and focus on a family discipleship model.

11. Are you on social media? If so, which ones?

Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr, Posterous, Flickr, FormSpring

Contact:

1. Does your ministry have a website? Yes or No, If so, write url in space below:
Your on it! http://ryanmarcum.com, psalmoftheday and puritanquotes

2. What is the best way to contact you if someone has a specific question regarding your field of ministry/expertise?
email: marcum.ryan@gmail.com

MISC:

1. What books are you currently reading/recommend?
Barbarian Way by Erwin McManus (older) and Radical by David Platt (New)

Doctrine by Mark Driscoll and Gerry Breshears

2. What was your latest itunes download?
Lecrae – Far Away

3. What is your latest project/event that people should know about?
I will be speaking May 21-23 at Simpsonville Baptist Church (Simpsonville, KY) Youth Ministry DNOW!

Love God Love People ryanmarcum.com

If Leaders are Learners… Traits

…then what are they EXPECTED to LEARN?  This is the second post in the series, if leaders are learners… In this series I will explore the art of leadership and what exactly leaders need to know to be effective. I will examine common practices of leaders, a few traits of leaders and what happens when a leader stops learning. In this post, I will be defining leadership from a Christian perspective, feel free to join the conversation and post your experiences in leadership in the comments section.

Before we begin with traits of a leader, we must define what we call, traits. There are three broad types of traits, Biological, Cultural and Physical. Biological traits, involve genes and characteristics of an organism. Cultural traits encompass the characteristics of a culture group. And Physical traits are specific to an object and its characteristics. There are many other types of traits, however we will look at Physical traits. So, if physical traits pertain to ones characteristics, then what characteristics are needed to be an effective leader?

When talking about leadership, the question that always arises is when is one a leader? To put it a different way; Does one learn to become a leader? Or is one a born leader? Personally I believe both, a leader is born and one can learn to be a leader. Born leadership is seen in many ways, for instance, my daughter is a leader in the sense that she can command my attention at any moment of the day. My daughter is also learning leadership when trying to do the right thing if other boys and girls are disobeying the teacher.

Culture tells us that leaders are good-looking, charismatic and generally out-going people, however when we look at Scripture and even history, leaders come from a myriad of backgrounds and experiences. The Bible gives many examples of unlikely leaders from Moses, Gideon, a Prostitute to Peter. Even History tells of ordinary men shaking the cultures around them from Abraham Lincoln, Harry Truman and many more!

For the purpose of this post let’s look at some KEY traits that are essential for effective leadership. Here is a list, non-exhaustive, that I have come up with.

Traits: (Some people are born with these naturally and others can LEARN these.)

Integrity: The NUMBER ONE trait in leadership, and life, is integrity. Integrity is in its simplest form is practicing what you preach. Who you are when no one is looking defines your integrity. Are you consistent in how you teach the Scriptures and how you live out the Scriptures?

Humility: Leaders are often seen as cocky or over-bearing. A humble leader accepts mistakes, instead of passing the blame on to those under them. Humility, when practiced produces godly leaders.  Matthew 23:12 – For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

Teachable: Do you know it all? A leader who thinks he knows it all will be an ineffective leader. Those under your leadership will begin to seek counsel/advice from someone willing to learn with others. LEADERS ARE LEARNERS!

Passion: Are you passionate about what you are leading? There are many in positions of leadership who have become apathetic to what they are leading. If you are not passionate about where you are, maybe it’s not where you are supposed to be. Your leadership will be effected if you are not passionate about your area of leadership. P.S. those under you will see how passionate you are, or how not passionate you are about your leadership.

Communicator: This one is debatable. Before I realized that I had been running from my call to the ministry (for another post), I was not a good communicator. In fact, I was deathly afraid of getting up in front of anyone to speak. But when I get up to preach a sermon, or teach a Bible study class, something clicks. I KNOW that God has called me to teach and my ability to do so is FROM HIM ALONE. With that said, should I neglect to practice teaching? NO, just because I have the gift of teaching doesn’t mean that I should not practice and hone my speaking skills.

Creative: Another debatable trait. Most leaders would say they are creative; however they do the exact same things every year expecting the same results (definition of insanity, Albert Einstein). There are some leaders with natural creativity and others who surround themselves with creative people; both of these scenarios are good. Even if you are not creative you can learn! Go to creative places, a park, coffee shop, movies, listen to indie music etc.

Flexible: This is a broad trait that I am using for not only flexibility but for also embracing change. Things CHANGE. If asked, most ineffective leaders will tell you that, if you don’t keep up with the changing culture around you, you’ll be left behind. It’s especially true in ministry. Have you ever been a part of a church or an organization that is playing catch up with the culture? Flexibility in leadership is a must to keep up with change.

Encourager: Plain and simple if you neglect encouraging those around you, they will leave. Leaders encourage not discourage.

Servant hood: The best leaders are servant leaders. Serve those around you instead of making those around you serve you. A professor of mine, from Boyce College, taught me an invaluable lesson. 1. Show up early to help set up, 2. Engage those around you through service, and 3. Stay late helping clean up. Thanks Dr. Adams!

Confident: Be confident in what you are leading not arrogant. If you believe in those you are leading you can be confident that they will be more apt to follow. If you’re not confident, your followers will begin to wonder if you are the right person for the job. Check out Philippians 1:6.

Visionary: Do you have a clear vision for your leadership area? If not, seek first the kingdom of God and rely on Him to provide the vision. There are many leaders who have vision but lack certain abilities to that particular vision through. This does not disqualify you as a leader. It is merely a chance to learn and grow in your leadership. Find a mentor or coach in the ministry and learn all you can about specific ways to facilitate the vision you have.

If you have other traits that you would like to share add them to the comments section below! The next post will be; What if Leaders Stop Learning?

Simple Ethos Chapter 3 snippet

Have you ever wondered what the meaning of life is? I mean really sat down and thought it through. Take a child for instance the meaning of life is probably in the neighborhood of everything is mine and is meant to make me happy. Take an adolescent the meaning of life might be boys, girls, music, having the most friends on facebook. But then we get older and suddenly the meaning of life becomes about finances and a bigger house finding the right husband or wife and “these things will make me happy.” And suddenly we become seniors and life becomes about memories and leaving a legacy behind. What is the meaning of life? Where do you find meaning? Are you trapped in a cycle of possessions and living from pay check to paycheck, or maybe your stuck in a scheduling nightmare that controls your every moment…

The book of Ecclesiastes gives us great insight on the wisest man ever, and the life he lived in pursuit of the meaning of life. In the beginning of the book Solomon says, that everything is meaningless, wisdom, work, pleasure, toil, wealth…everything is meaningless. Then with perfect harmony lays out wisdom that brings everything into focus. In the Conclusion of the last chapter in verse 13, Solomon says this,

Now all has been heard;
here is the conclusion of the matter:
Fear God and keep his commandments,
for this is the whole duty of man.

We are becoming.
Becoming more like what God intended us to be.
A people who fear(love, revere, honor, worship, adore…) Him and obey His commandments. This is the whole duty of man.

This is what it is all about,
…the Pharisees got together. One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this question: “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied: ” ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
So we have Loving God, Loving People, and everything we do should hang on these. Everything?
Can you imagine a life that revolves around one primary concept? A concept so simple that we sometimes miss… Can you imagine?
Imagine a world, no imagine a people so consumed with loving God not self and obeying the command to love our neighbors. How different would life be? The problem with our western culture is that we are so lost in self preservation and self promotion that the concept of living for something else, other than ourselves, is to faint to recognize. My generation is considered the microwave generation…what will future generations be called? Could the American church slip to obsolete? Or could people catch the life that is Loving God and Loving People?

Simple Ethos Chapter 2 snippet

I wear size 10 ½ shoes. I like my shoe size it is mine; it has been given to me by God. I like my shoes. The pair of shoes I have on right now are almost in my top 5 favorite pairs of shoes. I think my number one pair would be a pair of Air Jordan’s that I wore while playing basketball in a high school league growing up. We went 13-0 that year, it was amazing! And my shoes were there. Our shoes go every where with us, unless we’re on vacation in which case they stay behind only to sulk in a hotel room. Think about it our shoes are a representation of our life. You can document stages of your life by the shoes you wear. Important dates, births, deaths, weddings, sporting events, we have a pair of shoes for every occasion!
Let’s go deeper in our imagination in the context of wearing shoes. Sometimes my shoes get dirty, I mean literally dirty. I step in mud or a puddle of water, or someone’s forgotten gum. If our lives can be described by our shoes what would we look like? If a puddle represented an adulterous relationship? Or a piece of gum represented an abortion? Or what if a pair of shoes that we wore on our wedding day, never to be worn again, represented our relationship with God…

…you know, the shoes that match the suit or wedding dress. We shop around until we find the right ones, for the right price! We put so much energy in these shoes that when we finally put them on… and we can not wait to take them off. They hurt, our feet are not used to them just yet. When the wedding ends and we are back home and slowly we forget about those shoes, we put them away and they are forgotten. For some our relationship with God feels like a pair of wedding shoes.